Romance and Me: I need my fix RIGHT NOW! or Reading Withdrawal Symptoms

Filed in Romance and Me , The Latin Lover Posted on May 16, 2012 @ 3:00 pm 16 comments

Last week I was between two review books: I have just finished reading a contemporary romance novel and the next book on my reading schedule (oh no, do not think I have a fancy schedule I follow, it is just a thrown together list of books and review dates I have signed up for) was a contemporary romantic suspense story, when I felt like I was suffocating and needed something else. No, it wasn’t because the books weren’t good or were lacking in anything, no it was simply that I overloaded on contemporary stories and needed my historical romance fix. It certainly had physical symptoms like an actual withdrawal: 

– my attention span was that of a fly (all over the place, the book couldn’t hold my interest for longer than half an hour),
– I felt bored with the story, the characters and the romance (I stress once again that the story was great, I just wasn’t in the mood for it),
– unrelenting craving for something,
– ending with virtual shivers and my closing the book.

When I tried to understand what was my problem with a/two great well written stories I had an epiphany: they were both contemporaries, and the 2 books I read prior to them were contemporaries as well. That’s when I realized I must have reached my limit and needed some historical romance.

Historical romance has been my introduction to the romance genre and my first (and still ongoing) love. It is my guilty pleasure. I just can’t tire of it (unlike paranormal romances, now it’s enough if I spot “vampire” in a blurb to make me lose my interest in the book, but that’s a story for another post).

So after I identified the root of the problem I didn’t take any risks, I picked a HR I loved and re-read it for pure pleasure. No review needed, no deadlines, just me savouring the story of how the hero and heroine met and fell in love with each other. And it was wonderful *happy sighs* Exactly what I needed. And after I have recharged my HR batteries I picked up the poor contemporary novel I had abandoned and enjoyed it a lot.

So after my experience I wondered,

Do you ever get overload by any of the genres you read?

If you need a breather, a comfort read what is the genre you turn to?

Is there a genre or kind of books you can’t go without for more than a limited time?

Ever experienced reading withdrawal symptoms?

About Stella


Stella is a proud bookaholic and a self-taught multilinguist in training. Besides reading, her other great passions are travelling and baking. When she is not globetrotting she lives in sunny Budapest, where she loves to spend her free time preparing (and feasting on) delicious cookies or devouring equally yummy books. Her favourite genres are urban fantasy and romance and she couldn't live without her daily dose of sunshine. Besides being the Latin Lover on BLI Stella also blogs about books and a bookish life on Ex Libris.

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  • blodeuedd May 16, 2012 at 4:04 pm

    Hm, not really as I do read a lot of genres and I also try my best to space things out. so I will not get that overload.

    I need fantasy, that is my drug! 😀

    • Stella May 16, 2012 at 5:04 pm

      I just read my very first fantasy romance novel and loved it! Can’t understand why I waited this long to discover this genre lol…

  • Susan May 16, 2012 at 4:13 pm

    Oh, absolutely, Stella! I have to have a mix of books, both in genre and tone, so I don’t get burned out. I can zip thru a paranormal series, one right after the other, but then need to cleanse my palate (so to speak) with a Regency romance. A dark dystopian might follow a light contemporary. Just yesterday, I was struggling with an m/m romance by an author I normally love. I just wasn’t feeling it, so I read a fluffy little cozy-type mystery instead. (I’ll go back to the m/m at some point, and I’ll probably love it.)

    I don’t have a particular go-to comfort genre; all I need is a good read.

    • Stella May 16, 2012 at 5:05 pm

      I agree Susan, even great books can burn you out if you feel suffocated, nothing better than the stir things up a bit with something different 😀

  • draconismoi May 16, 2012 at 6:57 pm

    My comfort reads are the middle-grade or YA books I loved so much when I was a kid and keep copies of on-hand to burst me out of depression (or reading ruts). Dealing with Dragons, This Time of Darkness, The Girl with the Silver Eyes, The Hobbit, The Rains of Eridian, A Wrinkle in Time, The Hero and the Crown, Wild Magic, Juniper….

    Hmm, maybe I should do a review series of these awesome books. Make sure they stay in print. Or get the ones that are out-of-print back on the shelves.

    • Susan May 16, 2012 at 7:55 pm

      I haven’t heard of some of these. A review series may be in order. 🙂

      • draconismoi May 16, 2012 at 9:29 pm

        But are the book lovers interested in childhood nostalgia? There is a significant lack of sexy-times in these books.

        • Stella May 17, 2012 at 5:15 am

          We are open to it! Especially since we have some new plans and projects in the brewing… will let you in on the loop then 😉

    • Stella May 17, 2012 at 5:14 am

      Great idea! Not having grown up amongst English books I don’t kknow these children’s books.

      My comfort reads from my preteen period are the Anne series by LM Montgomery and An Old-Fashioned Girl by Louisa May Alcott (I will shock you but I never really cared for Little WOmen, IMO Old-Fashioned Girl is SO much better!)

  • Lexi May 16, 2012 at 10:41 pm

    I love all kinds of genres, but I am a historical romance lover at heart. So I can’t go too many books without going back and picking up a great historical. Something about them, can’t resist!

    • Stella May 17, 2012 at 5:20 am

      Seems we are book-soulmates then Lexi! 😀

  • JenM May 17, 2012 at 7:10 am

    I usually read UF, PNR, historical and contemporary romance, and I find that I just naturally tend to mix them up. Because I don’t review for a blog, I’m not on any kind of schedule, so it’s easy to keep it varied. It must be working because I haven’t burned out on any of them yet.

  • Anna May 17, 2012 at 9:36 am

    I so agree with you Stella! Somewhere after three or four books of the same genre and I get tired. Although there’s not one genre specifically that I turn to every time I need to relax. Depending my mood I choose something different 🙂

  • aurian May 17, 2012 at 3:03 pm

    I so recognize this Stella! And I usually turn to historical romance to. They are often much easier to read as you don;t have to remember every tiny detail. The second choice is a cozy mystery. That will totally relax me, especially as those are not as many pages.

  • Na S. May 17, 2012 at 8:31 pm

    I didn’t see it coming but I’m experiencing reading withdrawal right now! It started the last book and right now I’m not reading anything. I have a lot to choose from on my TBR pile right now and am currently re-reading the blurbs to see if any calls to me. There are some I’m “saving” for when I can enjoy it and others doesn’t appeal. Hopefully I find something tonight.

  • Ren Puspita May 22, 2012 at 3:40 am

    I often expereince Reading Withdrawal Syndrom. Since I read a lot of PNR, usually I kinda bored reading it, so I switched to anothers like Historical romance and contemporary. But then, I always love PNR, so usually after read 2-3 books from another genre, I back reading PNR again

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